Therapy for high-achieving adults navigating anxiety, depression & insomnia

You Don't Have to Keep Managing This Alone.

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I'm Hafina Allen, a licensed clinical social worker specializing in anxiety, depression, and insomnia for adults who hold themselves to a high standard. My approach is warm, collaborative, and rooted in evidence-based methods, primarily Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), so you get both a supportive space and practical tools you can actually use.

I work entirely via telehealth, which means wherever you are in New York, New Jersey, Florida, Connecticut, Illinois, New Hampshire or North Dakota, quality therapy is only a click away.

"You've built a life that looks good from the outside.

I'm here for what's happening on the inside."

How I can help

I work with adults facing the challenges that come with high expectations of themselves, their work, and their lives.

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    Anxiety & perfectionism

    For the overthinker who can't turn their brain off and the high-achiever whose standards are quietly exhausting them.

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    Depression & low mood

    When motivation fades, joy feels distant, and going through the motions is the best you can manage right now.

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    Insomnia & sleep issues

    When your body is exhausted but your mind won't stop CBT-I is the gold-standard, non-medication approach to lasting sleep.

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What working together looks like

  • Free 15-min call: We talk briefly about what's going on and whether working together feels like the right fit. No pressure, no commitment.

  • First session: We dig into your history, your goals, and what you actually want to change. You'll leave with a clearer sense of what therapy will look like.

  • Ongoing sessions: Weekly or biweekly telehealth sessions with practical tools and real progress on a schedule that fits your life.

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You might be a good fit if…

  • You're a high-achiever who appears fine on the outside but is quietly struggling

  • You want a therapist who is warm but also practical and direct

  • You're exhausted by anxiety, low mood, sleepless nights, or all three

  • You're ready to do the work, not just talk about doing the work

  • You value flexibility, telehealth fits your busy schedule

  • You're an adult in NY, NJ, FL, CT, IL, NH or ND

Taking the first step is the hardest part.

You don't have to have it all figured out before reaching out.

A free 15-minute call is just a conversation, low pressure, no commitment.

Telehealth · NY · NJ · FL · CT · IL · ND · NH